There are studies that show that low intrinsic motivation is associated with certain attachment styles. You know there are people who are just not like us, who are good at life? Like they're emotionally in touch with themselves, they're confident, they're brave, they do their resume on time, they go out, they apply to things at the right time... And we get so confused, why do these people get what seems like everything, and we have nothing? Turns out there is correlation between secure attachment, confidence and motivation.